Time of Our Lives: Celebrating Older Women By M. Kirkman, Melbourne, Vic: Monash University Publishing. 2023. $28.50 (soft cover). ISBN 9781922633729

Time of Our Lives by Dr. Maggie Kirkman unfolds as a literary tapestry, weaving together the resilience and diversity inherent in the lives of older women. Dr. Kirkman, a psychologist and senior research fellow at Monash University, brings a unique blend of expertise to this exploration of the ordinary made extraordinary.

Dr. Kirkman's work stands out from others in its genre, offering a distinct narrative style that unfolds organically, rendering the stories relatable and impactful. The exploration of past historical challenges and transformative journeys of women adds depth, creating a rich reflection of their experiences. Her writing style connects readers and the 20 women in the stories whilst avoiding imposing a singular definition of ‘superwoman’, recognising that not every woman aspires to or conforms to societal expectations of being extraordinary in every facet of life.

Indeed, within the narratives lies a celebration of the ‘extraordinary in the ordinary’ intrinsic to everyday life. This distinctive approach prompts critical reflection on societal norms and expectations. By intertwining historical struggles with personal narratives, she invites readers to consider the societal shifts and evolving perspectives that have shaped these women's lives. The book thus becomes not just a collection of stories but a continual exploration of the complex interchange between individual agency and societal constructs.

Moreover, Kirkman's ability to build empathy through her storytelling reveals an insightful, and at times, philosophical understanding of the human experience. The relatability of her narratives engages readers emotionally, allowing them to connect with the women on a more personal level. This emotional resonance serves as a powerful tool for challenging preconceived notions about ageing and womanhood.

In the broader context of the genre, where grandiose accomplishments often take centre stage, Dr. Kirkman's emphasis on the ordinary becomes a deliberate choice, reshaping perceptions of a fulfilled life. This departure prompts readers to question the societal inclination towards celebrating only exceptional achievements. The book encourages a reconsideration of the value assigned to ordinary moments, challenging readers to find beauty and significance in the simplicity of genuine selfhood. Her work prompts us to affirm that embracing one's authentic self is an act of courage and resilience. The book gently reminds us that, in a world clamouring for achievements to find fulfilment, the genuine embrace of the ordinary becomes a narrative of its unique extraordinariness.

Ultimately, Dr. Kirkman's work goes beyond being a mere anthology; it becomes a catalyst for introspection and societal questioning. It prompts readers to not only appreciate the individuality of the women portrayed but also to contemplate the broader implications for societal perceptions and expectations. Through this lens, Time of Our Lives emerges as a thought-provoking and transformative literary exploration. It is not just a book—it is an exploration, an affirmation and an ode to the beauty found in the simplicity of being genuinely oneself.