11–14 Years

Abstract

Pubescent body changes are beginning at this age. Mood swings may occur with the beginning of hormonal and physical changes. Friendships are even more important, but so, too, is a loving and stable family. Young people need families in which they feel safe and know they will be accepted despite the way they might look or dress. Young people need a family in which they can share their newly acquired views and thoughts, and know that they will be valued. These young people have a very fragile sense of self that is easily shattered, even though they may seem to have a tough exterior. The role of parents is to help the young person through this stage of development by being available, accessible and accepting of the young person, even though they may not like what they say, wear or do.