Gentle Parenting: A new parenting approach?

Abstract

Recently, the “Gentle Parenting” approach has garnered increased interest among parents. The term was first introduced by Sarah Ockwell-Smith, a parenting expert and author of a series of books about the perspective (Ockwell-Smith, 2023). Gentle Parenting is based on principles of attachment theory and positive discipline, advocating for understanding and meeting the child's needs rather than managing their behavior. Techniques such as active listening, validation, and problem-solving are central to this approach. Priorities are empathy, connection, and respect for the child's autonomy. Those who advocate Gentle Parenting contrast the approach with more traditional authoritarian parenting models, which are characterized by rules, punishment, and control and are viewed as outdated and ineffective by proponents of this type of parenting practice. Parents are drawn to Gentle Parenting as an alternative that promotes cooperation and understanding rather than one based on fear or obedience.