A Tribute to Paul Ornstein

A. Goldberg
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I should like to begin with a story. It is a story that so captures my admiration of Paul Ornstein that it has remained in my mind up to and including the room we were in when it happened, despite all the years that have intervened since it happened. We were on vacation in France with the Ornsteins and were planning the next day’s activities which we hoped would include a visit to the Leger museum. I had spread a map of the region out on a table and sadly announced that a direct road to our destination was not available, and so we would need to take a very roundabout route. We could get close but not quite there on the more direct road. I showed the map to Paul, and I was able to pinpoint the lack of closer access. Paul stood up, pointed to the missing road and announced: “If you will get us close, I will get us there.” His sense of conviction and determination seemed to overrule the lack of a highway, and I was both struck by his lack of sense along with his steadfast sureness. He seemed at once to embody a host of “self” words ranging from self-determination to self-righteousness to something akin to bravery. Earlier he had told us of his life in Nazi Germany wherein all of these abilities were on display and essentially kept him alive. Of course Paul has many qualities that make him loveable, but he also possesses a few that are both rare and admirable. I think these are best described as those of “inner strength.” This strength allows him to be without jealousy or rancor, easily able to acknowledge the contributions of others and most happily to remain a loyal friend. Those of us who may not match Paul in such an array of strength can easily and lastingly admire such a collection that Paul embodies.
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致敬保罗·奥恩斯坦
我想先讲一个故事。这个故事抓住了我对保罗·奥恩斯坦的钦佩,它一直留在我的脑海里,直到发生这件事时我们所在的那个房间,尽管这件事发生后已经过去了很多年。我们和奥恩斯坦一家在法国度假,计划着第二天的活动,希望能包括参观莱热博物馆。我在桌子上摊开了一张该地区的地图,遗憾地告诉他们没有直达目的地的路,所以我们需要绕道而行。我们可以接近,但在更直的路上还不能完全到达。我把地图给保罗看了,我找到了没有近距离通道的地方。保罗站起来,指着那条迷路的路说:“如果你能把我们带到近处,我就能把我们带到那里。”他的信念和决心似乎压倒了公路的缺乏,我被他的缺乏理智和坚定的信心所打动。他似乎立刻体现了一大堆“自我”词汇,从自决到自以为是,再到类似于勇敢的东西。早些时候,他告诉我们他在纳粹德国的生活,在那里,所有这些能力都得到了展示,基本上让他活了下来。当然,保罗有很多让他可爱的品质,但他也拥有一些既罕见又令人钦佩的品质。我认为这些最好用“内在力量”来形容。这种力量使他没有嫉妒和怨恨,很容易承认别人的贡献,最高兴的是保持一个忠诚的朋友。我们这些在实力上比不上保罗的人,可以很容易地持久地欣赏保罗所体现的这些收藏品。
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