Bullies Close to Home

D. Brothers
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The destructive influence of bullying, defined as a form of aggressive behavior involving emotional, verbal, or physical abuse, is felt in every relational configuration imaginable from dyads to large social and political groups. This article attempts to show how certain forms of bullying originate in intergenerational traumas. Using a relational systems approach to trauma and further developing my concept of “traumatic attachments,” I examine experiences of bullying in my own life. I attempt to show how Freud’s life and thought reflect themes of bullying as a response to the traumatizing anti-Semitism that infiltrated his development; and I briefly describe my work with a patient whose experiences of being the victim of bullying may be traced back to her grandparents’ generation. I reflect on how intergenerational traumas in my life may have sensitized me to being perceived as a bully by her.
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离家近的恶霸
霸凌的破坏性影响,被定义为一种涉及情感、语言或身体虐待的攻击性行为,在任何可以想象的关系配置中都能感受到,从二人组到大型社会和政治团体。这篇文章试图说明某些形式的欺凌是如何起源于代际创伤的。使用关系系统的方法来研究创伤,并进一步发展我的“创伤性依恋”的概念,我研究了我自己生活中的欺凌经历。我试图展示弗洛伊德的生活和思想如何反映欺凌的主题,作为对渗透到他发展过程中的创伤性反犹太主义的回应;我简要地描述了我与一位患者的合作,她遭受欺凌的经历可以追溯到她的祖父母那一代。我回想起我生命中代际创伤是如何让我对被她视为恶霸感到敏感的。
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