Mixed heritage, mixed feelings: psychoanalytic parent infant psychotherapy during the coronavirus pandemic

ABSTRACT This paper is an account of Psychoanalytic Parent Infant Psychotherapy (PPIP) by a white therapist with a mixed heritage family during the coronavirus pandemic. It describes changes to the distant relationship between a mother and her infant son who appears at first to be developing an avoidant, dissociated defensive strategy to ward off painful projections from his traumatised parent. Necessary modifications in treatment due to working remotely contributed to several technical adjustments made. The paper attempts to consider the inclusion of race as a fully integrated aspect of working in a transcultural field, taking into account the ‘ghosts in society’. The specific trauma of racist abuse, with an emphasis on colourism that can be experienced by mixed heritage families is discussed. The key to the improved relationship between child and mother by the end of the Parent Infant Psychotherapy is postulated to have come from reflection on the therapist’s countertransference in regard to racism, that then enabled both therapist and patient/s to recognise and begin to work through experiences, thoughts and fantasies about belonging, heritage and racism.