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本文探讨了浪漫爱情与多角恋之间的关系。我们的核心问题是,能否从浪漫爱情中剔除一夫一妻制的传统规范,从而与多角恋的伦理维度(正如我们所理解的那样)相协调。如何回答这个问题关系到另一个问题:"多角恋 "是否应该主要从浪漫爱情的角度来理解,还是应该从其他概念的角度来理解。为了解决这些问题,我们首先简要介绍了我们所推崇的浪漫爱情方法,即受 1930 年代文化理论家丹尼斯-德-鲁格蒙特(Denis de Rougemont)启发的 "叙事性 "方法,在这种方法中,爱情是排他性的、超自然的或有望超越的、痛苦的、受阻的,并最终是致命的。我们认为,即使取消了排他性这一正式要素,多角恋在伦理层面上的矛盾依然存在:浪漫爱情的其他要素使行为和情感合理化,从而使单一的爱人优先于其他人。一个诱人的解决方案是进一步修改浪漫爱情。然而,我们怀疑这是否会为独特的浪漫爱情留下空间。因此,我们的初步建议是,多角恋的伦理维度倾向于拒绝浪漫爱情,将其视为最终的理想。
This article explores the relationship between romantic love and polyamory. Our central question is whether traditional norms of monogamy can be excised from romantic love so as to harmonize with polyamory's ethical dimensions (as we construe them). How one answers this question bears on another: whether ‘polyamory’ should principally be understood in terms of romantic love or instead some alternative conception(s). Our efforts to address these questions begin by briefly motivating our favored approach to romantic love, a ‘narratival’ one inspired by 1930s cultural theorist Denis de Rougemont, wherein such love is exclusive, supernatural or promising transcendence, painful, impeded, and, ultimately, fatal. We maintain that, even once exclusivity is removed as an official component, tensions with polyamory's ethical dimensions remain: romantic love's other elements rationalize acting and feeling in ways that privilege a singular beloved above others. A tempting solution is to further revise romantic love. However, we are skeptical that this leaves space for distinctively romantic love. Our tentative proposal, then, is that polyamory's ethical dimensions favor rejecting romantic love as ultimately desirable.