Intimate Partner Violence

Intimate partner violence (IPV), also called domestic violence, is when someone is in a relationship and is physically, sexually, or emotionally harmed by their partner. IPV can happen to anyone who is in a relationship. It doesn't matter how much money you have, your occupation, or where you live. Anyone can be in a relationship and not feel safe. Women experience higher rates of abuse. About one of every 3 women will be abused at some point in their life. Men, as well as gay or transgender people can also experience abuse. If you are unsure if you are in an abusive relationship, there are people that you can talk to confidentially about your situation. If you determine that you want help, there are resources that can support you and help you develop a plan to protect yourself and your family.

Abuse can be different in every case. Usually, one person wants power and control over someone else. Abuse can be physical, emotional, verbal, sexual, or financial. The actions or words are meant to scare someone or control them.

Almost everyone who is being abused does not think abuse is happening when it starts. Many people who abuse their partners were nice at the beginning of the relationship. No one wants to think that the person they love would hurt them. Your partner may try to make you feel that the abuse is your fault. It is important to remember that you are never to blame for someone abusing you.

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