This study explores the experiences of fathers of existing children following pregnancy loss. Participants were 12 Israeli men who experienced pregnancy loss and had other children at the time. Semi-structured interviews were conducted. Four themes were generated through thematic analysis. The first was "emotional reactions": fathers described emotional disengagement after the loss. The second was "taking on a functional role": fathers assumed a functional role as supporters in their familial relationships. The third was "acknowledged at home but disenfranchised elsewhere": fathers felt their grief was unacknowledged by people around them. The fourth was "the relationship with the baby": fathers struggled to define the loss. They were able to connect with memories and pain of the loss through their re-engagement with their other children. Findings suggest that fathers feel grief that is disenfranchized by society. These findings highlight a need for individual and group interventions to support fathers in their grief.